I posted a meme the other day where I wrote that not every action is good in every occasion. I feel I need to explain it a bit more.
I hear people talk about always standing side by side with their partner. I see posts on Facebook about always being there to pick someone up. No! Life and relationships shouldn’t work that way.
A relationship is not 50/50 all the time. You give more when your partner can’t. Your partner gives more when you can’t. THAT is a relationship. THAT is a partnership.
When you fall down, is it because you made a mistake or you threw yourself down in defeat? One of those scenarios require a friendly hand to pick you up. The other scenario requires someone to repeatedly kick you until you’re annoyed enough to pick yourself back up and keep going.
So, you see, every action isn’t proper for every occasion. We all need different help for different times in our lives.